2016年3月28日

Hey man ! 再说一次生日快乐xD 祝你开学的时候有很多靓女围着你XDD
还有快高长大xDDDD
你选的我都喜欢啦 我不喜欢会说的嘛 就好像你之前说很美那些手表将xD
好彩今天还蛮顺利的啦 不过总结今天的一个字你跟我也一样的吧 就是“累”
累到 吃饭的时候都眼睛盖着xDD
谢谢你今天陪我啊xD 还有听我做工朋友诉苦一下下xD
加油加油

2016年3月27日

明天就是你开始进入大学的生活啦，
是时候开始过个新的人生
认识新的朋友 跨个新的社会
过个开开心心的日子
不要再随随便便地选择不想烦的事情了啊
就好像选书包之类的
选个自己喜欢的看到顺眼的
就OK了 别想其他的 

我不是每一次都可以帮你抓主意的哟
 (可能我选的你还不喜欢的呢你都不说)
不要再选择恐惧症了知道吗。

那手表就当做你送我的生日礼物咯xp
我就收下了哦

最后就是跟我管理好你的学业先 才好跟我看leng zaii找男朋友啊，记得啊！

做个乖乖女

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2016年3月21日

哈咯xDD 灵感来了来了xD
在店那时候啊 觉得你很keng得了咯xD 以前好像没有什么话说的wor xDD
我们去midvalley那天是最好笑的时候了 妈的xD 那天好爽因为有笑很多A_A
是国语的哦～～～XDDDDDDD 笑死
是时候要准备开学的东西啦～不知道要准备什么xD
加油加油 我希望赖骏豪找到他喜欢的科目啦 说到这里我还以为你读acc 怎知你是读IT 没有跟我说xD 死八婆

2016年3月17日

在你店的那一刻 是我在这个月里面最舒服的一段时间

因为没有东西让我去想 让我去烦 只是会笑 讲讲废... 真经话

虽然回家的时候还让我淋雨 但我还是很满足我的一小时在你店里 

谢谢你xP

2016年3月16日

哈咯xD 我回来啦～
还有不到两个星期就要开学了 不知道会怎样的呢xD 即期待又怕受伤害哈哈哈哈哈XDD
你也要加油噢~好好读书还有得空载我看看我吧XDDDDD

#大学就像你在中学转校的时候差不多 要适应不一样的环境不一样的面孔
但相信你自己 大学的生活会很有趣的 对你一点也没难度哈哈哈
我会的啦 我们比对了时间表在看看几时得空载你兜兜风呗#

"Why can't Christians date non-Christians?" By 靖凯

It's a question that is regularly asked, but not always accurately answered. It confuses, perplexes, and even angers both Christians and non-Christians alike. It sounds elitist, holier-than-thou, and downright condescending.

But trust me, it's not meant to be.

I'm 28 this year, I'm single, and one of the most common things I hear from my friends goes something along the lines of: "Why so picky? Really must be Christian? If your standard not so high I would introduce you to my friend(s) already la." And while I wholly believe in their well-meant intentions, I think it’s about time someone explained the reason behind this "pickiness", lest it be classified as another irrational, snobbish Christian standard to live by.

A long time ago, I went out with someone who, besides not being a Christian, was more or less perfect for me. Perfect in the sense that he was almost exactly like me, we liked the same things, had the same tastes, he knew what kind of stuff I would like, we even supported the same football team… perfect. All except for the fact that he wasn't a Christian. It didn't matter to me at first, but I think all along at the back of my mind, I knew it would be an issue someday. And sure enough, after awhile, I decided I couldn't go on with it anymore, because it was "wrong". And so I broke up with the perfect guy all because he wasn't a Christian. Everyone (including myself, sometimes) thought I was nuts and couldn't for the life of them understand it. I'm not sure he did either, and for that I am the most sorry. But decisions like this do baffle, and so they should and must be clearly explained.

While I do want non-Christians to understand this, I am much more concerned about us Christians. Because from the relationships and attitudes I am seeing around me (and sometimes even in myself), we sometimes forget the ‘why’ and get confused trying to do the what.

I think the biggest example of this, and I'm not going to sugarcoat it here, is Christians who extend "dating a Christian" to "dating someone whom I will bring to church", "dating someone who is open to Christianity", or "dating someone who calls himself a Christian but hasn't really been to church in a few years". I could go on, but you see my point. To do something like that is to miss the point of wanting to date a Christian in the first place. It's taking God's wisdom and stretching it so we find a loophole.

So yes, back to the reasons why Christians shouldn't date non-Christians. There are probably more, but here are four simple ones.

1. You believe in completely, absolutely different things

Any committed Christian will know that Christianity is not just a nice little side project that surfaces on Sundays and on Christmas - it involves and demands a total change in worldview, nature, lifestyle, decisions and priorities. It's not an "agree to disagree" kind of difference - like whether Manchester United or Liverpool is better (is there really an argument anyway?), its played out in how you spend your time, money, what you teach your future children, how you deal with hardship... I could go on. Some of these you may or may not have to deal with before marriage, but they will certainly apply after.

"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" - 2 Corinthians 6:14

Marrying a non-Christian means a lifetime of split loyalties, and a severe endangerment of your relationship with God. One way or another, one relationship (or even both) will have to be compromised.

2. It is never "just dating"

I should also clarify at this point that by "dating", I do not mean a casual, just-for-fun romance with no likely future - I mean a relationship entered into with the intention to find out if you are suitable for marriage. "What?!" You say. "I ain't ready for that!" Well then, perhaps you are not ready for dating. Casual dating is usually self-centered and self-serving: it's fun, it makes me happy, who cares what happens in the future? If we know for sure we will never marry said person, then being in a relationship with them is unfair to them as well. As Christians, the most important question we should ask is "Does this make me more like Jesus?" Casual dating, especially with non-Christians, almost certainly does not.

3. Something else just became more important than God

I can almost hear the argument being formed right now, that, basically, there is nowhere in the Bible that says it's a sin to date a non-Christian. In fact, the Bible doesn't even talk about dating: so how can we say what God's view is for sure?

Even if we gloss over passages like 2 Corinthians 6:14 above which tell us not to "be unequally yoked", common sense and godly wisdom tell us that a close relationship (and if we are dating, it's probably one of the closest relationships we have) with a non-Christian cannot be wise, let alone helpful. If the goal is to be more like Christ, then we are intentionally and knowingly making it harder.

"If then you have been raised with Christ... Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God... Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry." – Colossians 3:1-5

When we are willing to jeopardize our relationship with God for anything else - could be career, money, pleasure - then that becomes our idol, no matter how "good" it is in itself. Even a Christian relationship can become an idol if it takes precedence over God. So, even if not explicitly stated as a sin, the fact that we are willing to endanger our faith to cling on to this other person shows our heart's true desires.

4. The joy of having a Christian partner

And finally, we have to consider not just the possible pitfalls of dating (and marrying) a non-Christian, but the considerable benefits of dating a mature, growing Christian. "Dating a fellow Christian" is not just fulfilling a ticked box on the checklist of Christian dating, it's having the pleasure of being able to lead or be led by someone you can trust will have God's (and your) best interests at heart, someone who will care for and even nurture your spiritual growth, who will encourage you through Scripture during hard times, who will love you because Christ first loved him/her, who will be someone your kids can model and follow spiritually, and whose true home, like yours, is heaven.

"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." – Proverbs 31:30

"Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her... so that he might present the church to himself in splendor... that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself." - Ephesians 5:25-28

It's not always natural or easy to look for and desire these things in a relationship when other things like looks, personality and so on have such a magnetic pull - but I'm convinced that these are the most important things to have for the long term. Don't get me wrong, it's not that good chemistry and attraction are not important - they are just not as important as we think.

That is not to say that a Christian marriage is short of its share of troubles. No marriage or relationship, Christian or otherwise, is perfect. But that is precisely why we need a spouse that will see and address these imperfections through the light of Christ's perfect love for us.

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So it is not merely a matter of going to different places on a Sunday morning - it's a matter of ending up in different places for eternity. As a Christian, are you convinced that your salvation and relationship with God is more important than your relationship with anyone else? Are you certain that heaven and hell exist? Do you believe that obedience to God's word sometimes involves things we don't want to do, or don't even understand? Because there is no sitting on the fence - if your answer is yes, then you cannot continue knowingly disobeying God. And, rather more worryingly, if your answer is no, then you might have to ask yourself what you truly believe in.

I just want to say that this issue is just one of the many sins that we fall prey to, and that you are not more sinful or a worse Christian just because you are going through this. The Christian life is a constant struggle with sin - and the most alarming part is not when we sin, but when we stop struggling with it altogether, and even try to tell ourselves that it's okay.

It wasn't easy for me to write and post this - it actually took me more than a year since drafting it to actually get it out there; because I felt I couldn't do it until I really could come to terms with it. And even as I write this, I still have half a mind to leave it lounging in the 'Drafts' section. It is that hard, and it is that close to my heart.

If you are struggling with or facing this issue, I pray you will find the courage to obey God, and the faith to trust that this obedience will not leave you short-changed. Trust me, its something I battle with every single day.

2016年3月5日

今天心情特不好，
不知怎么了觉得自己很迷茫
不懂现在想追求什么 想做什么
只想乖乖的坐着发呆 睡觉
在前天的时候
兄弟他们不甘心的样子感到心酸
因为他们的SPM成绩感到不理想而失望
我不懂得该怎么去安慰他们
就仿佛我看见比我成绩好的人 我会妒忌会儿的那种感觉
而他们... 可能比我的心情还要难受多十倍
我只好选择沉默。。。

口中说的fail就fail啦 不重要的，
虽然是随便说说
但我相信 任何人都不想fail的
包括我自己